We wouldn’t like children. Ever. And so I chose to get a vasectomy.

We wouldn’t like children. Ever. And so I chose to get a vasectomy.

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I wanted a vasectomy, I was 42 years old when I first told my doctor. She stated i ought to just wait to be sure. My physician is more youthful she had just had her first child than I am, and. My family and I lack any kids, while the medical practitioner desired to make certain that people didn’t prematurely preclude ourselves through the joys of parenthood.

2 yrs later on, the doctor was told by me that my spouse, Nicole, happens to be on contraception pills for some of her adult life. We have been inside our 40s, and then we were particular we would not want kiddies. It had been time for me personally to keep the duty of preventing maternity, and because i possibly could perhaps not do so chemically, it might need to be medical.