Despite paradoxes inherent in male sex and also the tradition that encourages guys to possess intercourse with females while simultaneously degrading them if you are happy to achieve this, it really is my belief you want while also not being an asshole that it’s possible to get the sex. A culture where women aren’t treated simultaneously as sex objects and then slut-shamed by the men that desire them for being sex objects is a culture where women are going to be more willing to express themselves sexually after all, speaking strictly from a position of enlightened self-interest. Hence, we encourage guys become sex-positive but in addition to find the intercourse they desire in a manner that doesn’t make females uncomfortable or cast them in a role that is antagonistic. Or it: “Fuck Like A Gentleman” as I like to call.
However the sex-positive, collaborative view of intercourse goes beyond simply the work of attempting to pick someone up; it continues well to the room too.